White men dating black women tips
What began as a murmur of Black women’s character defects, sociologically based theory and statistical data has grown into a steady roar about our supposed lack of desirability.It seems that Black women have bought into this sensationalistic message, paving the way for a small army of (allegedly) well-intentioned Black men peddling relationship advice to Black women to become wildly successful (and wealthy) all for teaching us how to think more like them while acting like us.There is an alchemy present in our emotional lives that is too fluid to ever be constrained by statistical data.Blanks uses statistics to justify his position without taking into consideration some of the very real issues that those in interracial relationships face.Isn’t it time that we stop uplifting the White man as savior?
*crickets* I’ve heard more than a few of my professional sisters come straight out and say some variation of this statement while declaing "forget about Black men and their non-appreciating behinds." They’re looking to become the next Mrs. I’m a Black woman who has dated White, Hispanic and Black men.
If that’s the case, it’s worth considering that maybe the reason you’re consistently having problems of commitment in your relationships with Black men has absolutely nothing to do with the men.