My sister is dating my ex
Should she let a man come between them or should she swallow her own anger and let it go? He and I dated for two years and when we broke up, I was devastated.
Am I mistaken or is their an unwritten rule that you don't covet your own sister's ex boyfriend?
Dating someone who supports deceit always always produces undesirable karma. It won't work for you to continue dating him except that he agrees (at your insistence) to complete 24-hours of coaching, therapy, or counseling, alone, without you.That's not to say you don't love each other, it's that the love has become conceptualized. If you continue dating him another 24-hours, after reading this reply, you will reveal that you also need as much therapy. Arrogance is thinking you can recreate the experience of love daily without everyone's positive support; presently you can't even effect harmony within your own family.Your sister would never have dated a married man knowing how much it would hurt and invalidate her-your parents, her whole family— if she had been experiencing love with any or all of you. 'Steve'." You were clever enough to relate with him in such a way as to be able to say, you "barely" knew him (it's called a covert—albeit possibly unconscious—seduction). Communicated responsibly it would read, "Knowing he was vulnerable and horny I seduced him." It says that your mind refuses to acknowledge the power of intention, the communications that let him know, with absolute certainty, that you were interested in him. —Thank you, Gabby We see now that when you asked your sister if you could "date" him, you two had so many withholds between you that you were not in-communication with each other and so you couldn't tell she was lying; more accurately, you didn't want to know she was lying. " "I don't want to risk upsetting you." "Can I have sex with him?If you can get along with him then others might think that she was the problem, not him; yours is a covert way of making her wrong. "I am a loving person, you're not." I'm concerned about her reasons for divorcing him.