Dating preparation for divorce


22-May-2017 03:13

She was ready to date and had taken time to seek God and heal after her divorce three years earlier.

She thought her lunch date had done the same, but she quickly discovered otherwise. During their lunch, his eyes filled with tears and anguish.

Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.

Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.

You can also establish an accountability group made up of those who know and love you.

That way, when you feel tempted, you can call on them for prayer and support.

But John knows better because he's still married, and dating now would go against God's desires.Not only does going slow give you time to heal, but it also helps you better assess those you date.If you have taken the time to understand yourself and the dynamics that contributed to your divorce, you are more likely to make a godly choice in choosing the second time.She suggested that he develop relationships with other Christian men for support, rather than seek out women for emotional comfort. And, until he heals, he won't be able to relax and commit his entire heart to his new partner the way God intends.